Meeting someone by personal choice alone and not by chance is the latest trend for people in today’s fast paced lifestyles. Everyone has their own ideals on what kind of partner they would like to spend their rest of life with and most of them do this by searching for this ideal via the internet. There are many sites available on the internet that are perfect for doing this and one of the more famous is Connecting Singles (connectingsingles.com).  The site offers a totally free online service which helps its members by not creating a cost for them. The site offers its members the facility for viewing profiles of other members and a search option where you can define your choices further. The site caters mainly for people who want to become members in the USA, Canada, UK and Western Europe. The site is not specific in anyway and any one can join regardless of sex, sexual preference, age or location. There are also forums on the site which allows the members to post questions, receive advice and also give advice or read past articles and documents to help them out.

Meeting some one by chance is a rare thing nowadays. Some people believe it is becoming a lost art. The beauty of seeing someone in a bar/street/café/store etc and being attracted to them on sight which really is mainly about looks and the confidence the person gives off. They arrange to meet and hit it off starting a long and happy relationship; this ideal is far from the reality that has become. People some say are far too picky about what kind of qualities that they expect from their prospective partner and it can be harsh but the person you are looking for may not exist. By being willing to be more flexible on a few but not all of the attributes you would like will open up a whole new world for you.  By allowing a computer to do the work for you it is a form if you like of arranged dating similar to the practice of arranged marriage that is practiced by some cultures. In an arranged marriage situation a man and his family set a list of attributes and criteria’s that the woman has to have to be able to marry him. So how is this much different from allowing yourself to fall into the trap of letting a computer do all of the work for you, setting a criteria for your proposed partner and if they do not make the grade you drop them like a hot potato, it’s not that dissimilar at all really! So think on about what criteria’s you do set because you may miss out on the person who was meant for you just because you were being to strict.

Connecting singles do not only offer its members just the options to search, find and read information, participate in forums etc. But it also offers a top notch security package that protects your full profile from anyone you do not wish to see it or contact you. Having this kind of security or privacy allows you to be able to ban people from bothering you if they become too attached and you are just not that interested.

 

Hmmm…what a welcomed change to be finally having to practically beat them off with a stick as opposed to chasing them!!